Growing up, I was raised with a traditional notion of success: attend university, secure a job in your field, get married, buy a house, and start a family. This was the same path my parents followed and passed on to me and my sister. Following the advice of the high school guidance counselor, I was on track to pursue this conventional route in 2016, completing my second year in biomedical engineering at the University of Guelph.
After unsuccessfully applying for engineering jobs in Ontario, I unexpectedly landed a job at a horseback trail riding outfit in Banff National Park. Although this opportunity deviated from my planned career trajectory, my childhood experience riding horses on our family farm prepared me well for the role.
In Banff, I fulfilled my childhood dream of exploring the Rockies on horseback. Guiding guests through pine forests, driving horse teams along the Bow River, and leading visits to wildflower meadows filled with elk allowed me to appreciate the beauty of nature and live in the moment.
Realizing that a fulfilling life does not solely revolve around office work and corporate success, I learned to value simple pleasures like quiet mornings and being grateful for the environment around me, even during challenging 16-hour shifts in adverse weather conditions.
Working seasonally introduced me to diverse individuals who reshaped my perspective on a fulfilling life. Meeting people on career breaks, travelers funding their adventures through seasonal work, and those balancing summer and winter jobs left a lasting impact on me.
The friendships forged during my time as a trail guide were unique compared to those from school or my current desk job. Living and working closely with colleagues for months created deep, enduring bonds that transcended geographical distances.
Despite the emotional challenges of bidding farewell to friends after each seasonal job, I embraced the uncertainty and learned that there are various paths to success and happiness. Embracing change and being surrounded by positive influences became paramount in defining my personal success.
Following my heart, I pursued my passion for ranch work in Cranbrook, B.C., despite initial skepticism from my family. While this decision deviated from their expectations, they eventually recognized the value of my experiences and the friendships I had cultivated.
My current role in international sales allows me to continue exploring the world, thanks to the confidence and problem-solving skills nurtured during my time as a guide. Although I appreciate my career, I sometimes yearn for the simplicity of mountain life and horseback riding.
While my past self may have lamented not pursuing engineering, my present self cherishes the life I have crafted by following my dreams. Embracing change and seeking new experiences have enriched my perspective on success and fulfillment, emphasizing the importance of exploration and enjoyment in life.