A mother expressed how her life took a sudden turn when an employee at her son’s daycare center noticed something unusual about him. Mounika Vemula, hailing from Solihull, was deeply saddened when informed that her son, Devaansh, might have autism. This revelation in 2020 caught her off guard as she was unfamiliar with the condition until then. Mounika, a developer in the banking sector, described the initial days post-diagnosis as daunting.
Recalling the moment, she shared, “I was completely taken aback when a nursery worker gently hinted at a potential difference in him. I was utterly surprised.” Delving into her emotions further, she mentioned, “Upon researching online, I felt a mix of heartbreak and fear, particularly exacerbated by the onset of the Covid lockdown, which made things even more challenging. It was a significant overnight change in life.”
In an interview with BirminghamLive, Mounika disclosed, “Devaansh is diagnosed with Autism, ADHD, and a learning disability, collectively falling under Neurodiversity, with affected individuals termed Neurodivergents.” She added, “Devaansh, my only child, holds a special place in my heart.”
According to the NHS, autism is a cognitive difference rather than a medical condition, affecting the brain’s functioning uniquely. The health service clarifies that while there is no cure for autism as it is not a disease, some individuals may require support for specific needs.
Mounika candidly shared the challenges she faces with her son, stating, “Raising a child with special needs is demanding. Devaansh’s hyperactivity and need for routines pose additional hurdles.” She elaborated, “Public outings or classes were tough due to irregularity and unfamiliar faces, leading to his discomfort. Despite having a support system, the sense of isolation and confusion crept in, a feeling best understood by those on a similar journey.”
Her narrative took a positive turn when she discovered the Birmingham-based autism support group, Bridging Brains CIC, roughly 18 months ago. Founded by Dr. Anuradha Uppaluri and Dr. Hari Krovvidi, the group aims to assist families navigating autism, especially within the Telugu community where autism remains less discussed.
The inclusive group, offering various activities like arts, crafts, music, dance, games, and sports, has witnessed substantial participation from families seeking camaraderie and support. Mounika emphasized the group’s transformative impact on her life, sharing, “Engaging in weekly activities, calls, and workshops with Anu has been life-altering. Connecting with families who share similar experiences has been empowering and reassuring, erasing the sense of solitude.”
She mentioned that Devaansh now displays increased happiness, finding joy in painting, arts and crafts, and music and dance sessions.